POSITIVE THINKING

I married this beautiful girl in 2006. Ever since i started living with her, I've learned the positive way of thinking. I was very ambitious and always wanted to be at the top.She, however, showed me that its not important to be the number one, rather than to be a good person. And how can you be a good person? Its possible only if you always hold a positive attitude towards your life. Sometimes i wonder how this girl can be so very optimistic, hopeful and can see the light even at the end of the darkest tunnel. Trust me guys, the happiness is all within you. Love people, give people without expecting anything. Know that, everyone on earth thinks himself or herself as the most important person. So, tell them they are important in your life. Show them how much your care for them. And when someone will have the faith on you, and will believe that you are someone to whom they can turn in to in crisis, will inevitably make you feel good in yourself. Your positive thinking can even change many courses of the events surrounding you without your notice.

The feelings of true happiness

I tried to figure out how it feels to be truly happy and suddenly i recalled a very petite incidnet of my life. It was a very cold winter evening sometimes in the the year 2000. I was living in a small town of Bangladesh. After my dinner i took a gentle walk in a quiet area nearby my place. Since it was very cold, i had plenty of warm clothes on. While i was in the street, i suddenly saw a very poor man, of about middle age, shivering in the cold! He only had a torned trouser with just a thin vest on. I looked at myself, how many i was wearing? I had vest, thermals,  a round neck T shirt, a shirt, a sweater, and a jacket!!! Seeing that poor man, i suddenly was so saddened that my eyes got wet instantly. I took of my jacket and gave it to him. At that moment, the gratitude in his eye i saw brought tears in my eyes yet again. I suddenly felt extremely happy just by comforting a poor man. Till this day, i sometime wonder, was that the feelings of true happiness? Perhaps it was............who knows?

Consistency in Thought Process

Sometimes i find it difficult to keep consistency in my thought process. Perhaps this is a big hurdle that i need to overcome to achieve my goal.